Your heart knows….Trust it
What if relationships could be easy with ourselves and others? I look at my granddaughter and it's so easy to love her and be in awe of her as she grows. I have so much joy watching her be herself. She is sassy, funny, inquisitive, warm and love. I love all of her! I allow her to be an example of how I get to love myself and others. I have no judgment or expectations of her to be something for me. I want her to be her and I love her.
Do you wonder? How could it be easy? Maybe, the right people show up, others support us, and we listen to our hearts. Some move on and have taught us lessons that will last a lifetime. Some stay with us for a lifetime. What about our relationship with ourselves? It's so important to cultivate a relationship with ourselves.
Trust yourself! So many of us have stopped trusting our hearts and ourselves.
I love this quote.
“Your heart knows the way, run in that direction” – Rumi
She has a sense of liberation, feeling free to be herself. Deep down, we all yearn to be heard and understood. Is it possible? Does someone really know how she feels? What she thinks? After all, they are not her.
She believes in the power to delve within, to connect with that profound feeling of deep love, a longing that only she can express. The pain she feels can feel scary and too much, but by allowing herself to hold this space within to feel it all & know she won’t shatter; she won’t break. She gets to feel her fullness, her entirety, and the depths of her soul. It’s what makes her, her beautiful self, all of it, the good, the awe, the beauty, the pain, the ugly, the raw parts, the vulnerability; it’s what makes her unique. She will draw her people in with it & push others out. It’s not good or bad, it’s just what it is. Most important is her understanding of herself to show up as her authentic self in relationships and with herself.
It’s for a reason, a season or a lifetime. No one comes by chance, they come into her life when she needs them to. Their paths have crossed for a reason.
The people meant to be in her life will always gravitate back towards her, no matter how far they wander.
Her life is enriched because of the people she has met. Even the painful parts of the relationships. The sad parts, they make her see what she wants in a relationship. If people don’t take time to get to know her & listen, they are just passing through. Knowing herself and loving herself teaches her how to follow her heart in relationships with others, and herself. The way to make it easier is to trust and love yourself. Find the joy and allow it to be easy. Don't judge the way your emotions show up. Allow them to show up and listen to them so they can flow. You are important and worthy of love. Your relationship with yourself is so important. It's the most important relationship. The more you see your worthiness the more you can cultivate relationships with yourself and others. You see, it's so easy for me to love my granddaughter and it teaches me that I can love myself just the same. With ease, joy, acceptance, trust. Love will show you the way with trusting yourself and your relationships. Affirm love and trust for yourself. Your heart knows the way. If your relationships are feeling challenging reach out and set up a time to connect. Laura Grabavoy
Much love
Laura
